Our elegant Ever After Elopements create a day that is all about you
— the perfect day in the most romantic atmosphere where we take
care of all the details
An Elopement That Is Effortless and Exceptional
Every element is thoughtfully curated for you — the flowers, the food, and the flow of the day. Our award-winning photographer captures the essence of your celebration, while you are cared for from the moment you arrive.
Begin with a sparkling welcome and a beautifully considered ceremony, then linger over a memorable multi-course dinner, an overnight stay, and a relaxed, indulgent breakfast the following morning.
Ever After Elopements removes the flurry, planning, and stress, allowing you to be fully present and enjoy a day that feels calm, intimate, and entirely your own.
For Couples Who Want a Tiny, Intimate Wedding
Whether you are eloping for your first I do or renewing your vows, secretly or by design, Ever After Elopements is created for couples who want their day to reflect what truly matters — just the two of you.
If you do not relish the time, effort or stress in organising your own wedding, Ever After Elopements offers the perfect solution.
Each elopement will feel effortless, elegant, and deeply personal. A beautiful garden setting, a romantic suite, and thoughtfully prepared fine dining come together to create a calm, memorable celebration without stress or excess.
If you wish, up to six guests may join you for the ceremony, drinks, and dinner.
The Church
The charming 1870s church at The Milk Station is an ideal setting for a tiny, intimate, and deeply special wedding. Rich in character and history, it offers a sense of quiet beauty and timelessness that feels both romantic and grounded.
Carefully preserved and thoughtfully presented, the church provides a calm, atmospheric space for your ceremony — one that feels personal, meaningful, and perfectly suited to a celebration focused on the two of you.
The Venue
The Milk Station, located in Otaki on New Zealand's Kapiti Coast, is an historic venue just an hour from Wellington. It has been transformed to a world-class Italianate venue and is the back drop for your wedding.
Spanning four acres, the European inspired gardens offer serene spots, ideal for the two of you to enjoy and to capture your romantic photos.
What's Included in an wedding with us:
- Afternoon tea
- A bottle of champagne
- Pre-dinner drinks and hors d'oeuvres
- Photographer
- Celebrant
- Personal Chef for dinner
- Multi-course dinner
- Accompanying wines
- Luxurious overnight stay
- A special breakfast
- Late checkout
Frequently Asked Questions:
How many photos will we get?
Jo at Captured by Friday is one of the top wedding photographers in the country. You will receive more than 250 professional photos of your wedding. Captured By Friday Photography
What are the payment terms?
A 25% deposit secures your date. The balance is payable one week before arrival.
How much notice do we need to give you?
A minimum of one week, subject to team availability.
What if we want hair and makeup or a videographer?
We have excellent recommendations and can connect you. These services are arranged and paid for directly.
What happens if we need to cancel?
For bookings made more than 14 days in advance
- Deposit non-refundable
- Cancel 14+ days before → balance refunded
- Cancel 10–14 days before → 50% refund
- Cancel less than 10 days → no refund
For bookings made within 14 days of the event
- Deposit non-refundable
- Balance is payable immediately
- All payments are non-refundable
Do we need to plan or organise anything?
No. Every element of your elopement is arranged for you. Simply arrive, marry, celebrate, and stay. You’re welcome to bring your own wines but dinner wines are included.
Can we visit beforehand?
We don’t offer site visits because our Ever After Elopements Video shows you every detail of what you'll experience.
How many guests can we include?
Your package is designed for two. You may add up to six guests for pre-dinner drinks, the ceremony, dinner and wines at NZD $250 per person.
What about our vows?
Catherine, our celebrant, will work with you in advance to ensure your ceremony and vows reflect exactly what you want.
What will our elopement cost?
NZD 5,000
Dining
A personal chef will be cooking exclusively for you.
Your celebration includes a beautifully considered, seasonal surprise menu, accompanied by wines and designed to complement the the romance of the day. You are welcome to bring your favourite wines but we serve wines to accompany dinner.
From afternoon tea on arrival, to hors d'oeuvres with drinks, a degustation multi-course dinner, and a special breakfast the following morning, dining is an integral part of the experience.
Your Hosts
I’m Margôt de Cotesworth. Together with our experienced professional team — Norbert, Jo, Sam, Catherine, Leonie — we curate each Ever After Elopement with care, precision, and warmth.
Rather than site visits, we provide a comprehensive video walkthrough that shows you exactly how your day will unfold. We invite you to watch the video, read our FAQs, and then enquire to book.
We take care of every detail, allowing your wedding day to be relaxed, seamless, and beautifully considered.
About Margôt
I have spent many years cooking, hosting, and designing gatherings of all kinds — from intimate dinners to weddings and private events. My background spans boutique catering, event hospitality, and interior design.
With Ever After Elopements, my focus is simple: to create a day shaped by romance, exceptional food, thoughtful service, and moments you’ll remember long after it has passed.
Can we personalise the ceremony?
Yes, in terms of your vows. Our celebrant will work with you to create a ceremony that reflects your story and preferences.
What flowers are included?
We provide flowers for the church, your room, and your dinner table.
Is there flexibility on the menu?
Your private chef will create a seasonal, multi-course, surprise dinner. Please advise dietary needs when booking.
When are elopements available?
All year.
How much notice do we need to give you?
A minimum of one week, subject to team availability.
What if we want hair and makeup or a videographer?
We have excellent recommendations and can connect you. These services are arranged and paid for directly.
Can any guests stay?
Not in the church but it is possible guests can stay in The Milk Station by arrangement.
Can we stay longer than one night?
Yes, by separate arrangement.
What happens if it rains?
The church and indoor settings ensure your ceremony and photography remain beautiful in any weather.
What happens if Ever After Elopements need to cancel?
If Ever After Elopements must cancel for any reason, you may choose a full refund or reschedule with a special consideration added to your day.
