Our elegant Ever After Elopements create a day that is all about you

— the perfect day in the most romantic atmosphere where we take

care of all the details

An Elopement That Is Effortless and Exceptional

Every element is thoughtfully curated for you — the flowers, the food, and the flow of the day. Our award-winning photographer captures the essence of your celebration, while you are cared for from the moment you arrive.

Begin with a sparkling welcome and a beautifully considered ceremony, then linger over a memorable multi-course dinner, an overnight stay, and a relaxed, indulgent breakfast the following morning.

Ever After Elopements removes the flurry, planning, and stress, allowing you to be fully present and enjoy a day that feels calm, intimate, and entirely your own.

For Couples Who Want a Tiny, Intimate Wedding

Whether you are eloping for your first I do or renewing your vows, secretly or by design, Ever After Elopements is created for couples who want their day to reflect what truly matters — just the two of you.

If you do not relish the time, effort or stress in organising your own wedding, Ever After Elopements offers the perfect solution.

Each elopement will feel effortless, elegant, and deeply personal. A beautiful garden setting, a romantic suite, and thoughtfully prepared fine dining come together to create a calm, memorable celebration without stress or excess.

If you wish, up to six guests may join you for the ceremony, drinks, and dinner.

 

 

 

The Church

The charming 1870s church at The Milk Station with its vaulted ceiling is an ideal setting for a tiny, intimate, and deeply special wedding.

Rich in character and history, it offers a sense of quiet beauty and timelessness that feels both romantic and grounded.

Carefully preserved and thoughtfully presented, the church provides a calm, atmospheric space for your ceremony — one that feels personal, meaningful, and perfectly suited to a celebration focused on the two of you.

It also has your kitchen, bedroom, bathroom and a room to change in. And there is a lovely, lush green private outside garden — great for breakfast of just a quiet drink together.

 

 

The Venue

The Milk Station, located in Otaki on New Zealand's Kapiti Coast, is an historic venue just an hour from Wellington. It has been transformed to a world-class Italianate venue and is the back drop for your wedding.

Spanning four acres, the European inspired gardens offer serene spots, ideal for the two of you to enjoy and to capture your romantic photos.

Drink in the atmosphere in the orchard, around the fountain or with the back drop of magnificent olive and cyprus trees. All this is yours for your elopement.

 

 

 

 

What's Included in an wedding with us:

  • Afternoon tea
  • A bottle of champagne
  • Pre-dinner drinks and hors d'oeuvres
  • Photographer
  • Celebrant
  • Private chef for dinner
  • Multi-course dinner
  • Accompanying wines
  • Luxurious overnight stay
  • A special breakfast
  • Late checkout
  • In house flowers
  • Ever After Elopements curated playlist

 

 

 

 

                                   Frequently Asked Questions:

 

How much notice do you require?

A minimum of one week, subject to availability.

Do we need to plan or organise anything?

You just need to apply for your marriage licence, otherwise every element of your elopement is arranged for you. Simply arrive, marry, celebrate, and stay. You’re welcome to bring your own wines but dinner wines are included.

Can we personalise the ceremony?

Yes, in terms of your vows. Our celebrant will work with you to create a ceremony that reflects your story and preferences.

What about our vows?

Catherine, our celebrant, will work with you in advance to ensure your ceremony and vows reflect exactly what you want.

Are there contractural or legal considerations?

Yes, with your celebrant and photographer. We'll put you in touch with them to talk about what you want and what they need to cover with you.

Can we visit beforehand?

We don’t offer site visits because our Ever After Elopements Video shows you every detail of what you'll experience. See the video below.

How many guests can we include?

Your package is designed for two. You may add up to six guests for pre-dinner drinks, the ceremony, dinner and wines at NZD $250 per person.

Can any guests stay?

Not in the church but it is possible guests can stay in The Milk Station by arrangement.

Can we stay longer than one night?

Yes, by separate arrangement.

Can you accommodate children?

Ever After Elopements are designed as intimate, adults-only occasions and unfortunately we do not have the capacity to accommodate children.

Is there flexibility on the menu?

Your private chef will create a seasonal, multi-course, surprise dinner. Please advise dietary needs when booking.

What flowers are included?

We provide flowers for the church, your room, and your dinner table.

Contact us for enquiries and bookings: [email protected]

 

 

Dining

A private chef will be cooking exclusively for you.

Your celebration includes a beautifully considered, seasonal surprise menu, accompanied by wines and designed to complement the the romance of the day. You are welcome to bring your favourite wines but we serve wines to accompany dinner.

From afternoon tea on arrival, to hors d'oeuvres with drinks, a degustation multi-course dinner, and a special breakfast the following morning, dining is an integral part of the experience.

Your Hosts

I’m Margôt de Cotesworth.

I have spent many years cooking, hosting, and designing gatherings of all kinds — from intimate dinners to weddings and private events. My background spans boutique catering, event hospitality, interior design and I have written books on life and love.

With Ever After Elopements, my focus is simple: to create a day shaped by romance, exceptional food, thoughtful service, and moments you’ll remember long after it has passed.

Together with our experienced professional team — Norbert, Jo, Sam, Catherine, Leonie — we curate each Ever After Elopement with care, precision, and warmth.

Rather than site visits, we provide a comprehensive video  walkthrough that shows you exactly how your day will unfold. We invite you to watch the video, read our FAQs, and then enquire to book.

We take care of every detail, allowing your wedding day to be relaxed, seamless, and beautifully considered.

 

 

What if we want hair and makeup or a videographer?

We have excellent recommendations and can connect you. These services are arranged and paid for directly.

How many photos will we get?

Jo at Captured by Friday Photography is one of the top wedding photographers in the country. You will receive around 200 professional photos of your wedding. Captured By Friday Photography

How do we receive the photos?

You will receive a handful of edited photos within 24 hours of your wedding to share with your friends/family. The balance of photos will be delivered within 4-5 weeks max.

You will receive your photos via an on-line gallery. The gallery is passworded and only accessed by you. You can share the gallery with friends and family. The photos are downloadable in high resolution.

What happens if it rains?

The church and indoor settings ensure your ceremony and photography remain beautiful in any weather.

What are the payment terms?

A 25% deposit secures your date. The balance is payable one week before arrival.

What happens if we need to cancel?

For bookings made more than 14 days in advance:

Deposit is non-refundable
Cancellation 14+ days before: balance refunded in full
Cancellation 10–14 days before: 50% of balance refunded
Cancellation less than 10 days before: no refund

For bookings made within 14 days of the event:

Full payment is required at the time of booking
All payments are non-refundable

What happens if Ever After Elopements need to cancel?

If Ever After Elopements must cancel for any reason, you may choose a full refund or reschedule with a special consideration added to your day.

What will an Ever After Elopement cost?

NZD 5,000 all inclusive.